Need help with your relationship?

Your Breakdowns Will Create Amazing Breakthroughs!

(From not knowing how to say it, to communicating with ease.)

Quickly resolve the challenges that occur when there’s a communication breakdown in any aspect of your life, including your partner, your children, siblings, and co-workers. 
Breakdowns to Breakthroughs is a 2-hour course that cuts out the fluff, saving you valuable time and eliminating frustration. providing life-long results when YOU do the work.

Testimonial

“My life has changed so much since working with Lateefah, I feel so liberated in such a short amount of time. The coaching method she uses involves [and has touched my] mind, spirit, and emotions to help guide me to healing and being set free. What is so touching is, she sincerely cares, she not only knows what and how to implement help/healing, she extends compassion. You can see her joy when I have made a breakthrough. This is more than a career for her, it is her passion. I am grateful to Lateefah, and so thankful our paths have crossed. I highly recommend her, she will guide you through a liberating, life changing process in a way no one else could. You'll never be the same!“

Rebecca England

Are you pretending to be ok, and acting like your problems don’t matter?

Well let’s cut the bull and get real.  Do thoughts like these crowd your mind?

  • Talking used to be easy, now it’s a chore.

  • I’m walking on eggshells whenever we’re together.

  • I have no idea who this person is anymore.

  • Being together isn’t fun.

  • We’ve lost our connection because things have changed. 

  • The thrill is gone between us. 

  • We hardly see each other and when we do it’s uncomfortable.

  • Everything needs to be fixed but I don’t know how to fix it.

  • It feels horrible being insecure and uncertain around someone I love.

  • I’m tired of being ignored.

If you’re having negative thoughts and sulking around feeling sorry for yourself, that won’t do you any good. Creating negative stories, feeling unloved, and comparing yourself to others just makes you feel worse.

Let me tell you a little secret. In relationships, and in your life, there’ll be bumps on the road. That doesn’t mean it’s over, or anything you’re thinking is true!

Stop creating negative stories in your head,
Forget about feeling sorry for yourself.
Stop the negative narrative and keep moving forward with your life.

Testimonial

“I believe you’re in the right place if you’re looking for direction to find your path. The Coaching Kiva will help you discover your inner strength’s that you already possess. She has a trained ear, and listening is her strong point. She genuinely cares. You can feel her enthusiasm for your journey!“

Darlene Keeton

Breakdowns to Breakthroughs

The worlds shortest, most effective online course, teaching you the art of communication, while improving your life, and repairing relationships.

Testimonial

“Dr. Lateefa Wielenga has a kind soul, is intuitive and will guide you into confidence. My experience with her, as my Life Coach, isn’t only therapeutic but she’s really helped me overcome family issues including my mom’s death that happened many years ago. As a result of our on-going sessions (10 years or so…), she has taught me to shift my thinking, She’s bold, evolved and funny too, bonus!“

Miriam Velazquez

Because relationships should include emotional intimacy, closeness, understanding, fun, passion and enjoyable sex, Breakdowns to Breakthroughs provides the tools that allow you to re-invite such things into your life.

Inside this one-of-a-kind course, you’re going to discover the hidden secrets of how to:

  1. Listen without overreacting

  2. The six human needs

  3. How to control your emotions

  4. How to recognize your ego and shut it down

  5. The significance of touch

  6. The ease and flow of love

Testimonial

“A great coach … and teacher that will guide you in your journey of love …Her professionalism was unwavering, yet all the while didn’t pull any punches to bring truth to light and spoke it to power to revive what seemed to be a dead-end relationship … Her guidance has led my (now) wife and I on a wonderful journey of what real marriage and love looks like“

Kevin W.

The Coaching Kiva also offers coaching packages. 
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Testimonial

“Dr. Wielenga truly is life changing. She is a highly talented therapist who has helped my husband and I through various transitions in our lives. We met her when we were dating and did some pre-marital prep work with her after getting engaged. She is an active listener who excels at helping people realize the best versions of themselves. She has a no-nonsense approach and won’t tell you what you want to hear but will tell you what you need to hear. We couldn’t recommend her enough, and after working with her off and on for years, we feel like she is part of our family because she was such an integral person in helping build the foundation of our family. If you are considering going to see her – stop considering it and just DO IT! You won’t regret it.”

Marcy P

 Breakdowns to Breakthroughs is an efficient, comprehensive 2-hour online course that teaches you the art of effective, purposeful communication, by getting to the heart of the problems, and offering exercises you can do now and begin seeing results immediately.

 If you have questions, we have answers.

  • Because it has worked for 100’s of people who want to save their relationships.

  • It immediately gets to the point of the problems and teaches you how to repair them.

  • Yes. You can speak with me, Dr. Wielenga. Email me @drw@coachingkiva.com

  • You can always invest in one of my coaching packages.

 Who This Course is & isn’t For.

  • You want a quick fix.

    Aren’t willing to do the necessary work to see results.

    Aren’t reading to invest in yourself or your relationship.

    You aren’t serious about improving your life and relationship.

  • You’re struggling in your relationship.

    You have a hard time conveying a message.

    Communicating is a challenge for you.

    You take things personally.

    You’re easily triggered.

    You believe you have no control over your emotions.

    You want to improve/save your relationship.

    You’re willing to do the work required to see results.

    You’re willing to invest in yourself and your relationship.

    You’re serious about changing your life.